I’m just starting to explore my dom/kinky side (and have done a little experimentation over sexting/cybering) and would love to reach out to fellow newbies (or experts) in my area to learn/experiment together or even just have fun, talk, and hang out. What’s the best way to go about this? Should I get more established in the community by posting… Continue reading "Ask – Exploring BDSM When You’re New"
I have some issues with my sexuality and relationships. So far I’ve only had vanilla sex with people I’m dating and kinky sex solely with people I’m not dating. I’m in a kinky relationship with a man who is the same age as me. It’s mostly kitten play, BDSM, with some daddy kink involved. Most of our convos outside of… Continue reading "Ask – Seperate Kink and sexual relationships"
I’m new to BDSM and I just heard of the term ‘submissive frenzy’. What is it? Why does it happen? How can I avoid it? Is there anything else I need to know about it? Submissive Frenzy Submissive frenzy is a phrase used to describe the state of excitement that new submissives often feel when starting out in BDSM. It… Continue reading "Ask – Submissive Frenzy & Dominant Frenzy"
I am a submissive woman who seeks a Dominant man, so I posted a profile and an ad on a popular website. I received a message from a Dominant who sounds ideal for me. He told me upfront that he is married. That he and his wife have an agreement that as long as he doesn’t “bring it home,” she… Continue reading "Ask – Polyamory in BDSM Relationships: Verifying it’s Okay"