I’ve spoken before about safe words being controversial and I wanted to continue my thoughts on safe words in general. Choosing Safe Words vs Plain Language You and your partner(s) will have to decide if you want to use safe words or plain language. It’s a choice that each person should make for themselves. I tend to defer to the bottom… Continue reading "More on Safe Words"
My most recent book is available now! Get your copy in e-book or print format through Amazon. Help spread the word! Exploring BDSM: A Workbook for Couples (or More) Discovering Kink will walk you through eight popular categories of kink, encouraging you to explore each one as you go. Fill out checklists with your partner and get advice on crafting… Continue reading "Exploring BDSM: A Workbook for Couples (or More!) Discovering Kink"
We all hear about the importance of negotiation in BDSM play and relationships. This negotiation checklist is meant as a guideline to help you when planning play or dynamics with new people. The list is more oriented towards play, where people will likely have similar topics to discuss, whereas relationships are very individual. That said, feel free to use any… Continue reading "Negotiation Checklist"
Yay! My book is finally available in print format! You can buy your very own copy of A Guide to Classic Discipline through the Createspace Store right now or Amazon.com and select bookstores over the next few days and weeks. I will be trying to get my book carried by as many adult-oriented stores and bookstores as possible. If you’re… Continue reading "Print Version – A Guide to Classic Discipline"