Have Safewords Become Controversial? Safe words are a well-known aspect of BDSM. We are all aware of the pop culture references to them, the joke that they have become in vanilla society. There has been a backlash against safe words in recent years by parts of the kink community – a group who does not seem to understand what safe… Continue reading "Are Safewords Controversial?"
I can’t even right now but I had to get this out. Sometimes I am so disappointed in my own community. The arrogance. The hubris. The complete disregard for the well being of others when one’s ego gets involved. Strap in, this is going to be a long one. The Solar Branding Fiasco To understand this current situation, we need… Continue reading "The Respected BDSM Educator, the Body Modification Expert and the Solar Branding Fiasco"
We all hear about the importance of negotiation in BDSM play and relationships. This negotiation checklist is meant as a guideline to help you when planning play or dynamics with new people. The list is more oriented towards play, where people will likely have similar topics to discuss, whereas relationships are very individual. That said, feel free to use any… Continue reading "Negotiation Checklist"
In what will be the final Kinky Dating post for a while, we will discuss kinky dating scams and red flags. If you missed the other posts in the series, please check out Kinky Dating – Know Yourself, Creating a Kinky Profile, Creating a Kinky Personal Ad, Sending Kinky Messages, Kinky Dating Safety and Meeting Kinky People. There will be more… Continue reading "Kinky Dating Scams & Red Flags"