We all hear about the importance of negotiation in BDSM play and relationships. This negotiation checklist is meant as a guideline to help you when planning play or dynamics with new people. The list is more oriented towards play, where people will likely have similar topics to discuss, whereas relationships are very individual. That said, feel free to use any… Continue reading "Negotiation Checklist"
This weekend I attended my very first BDSM unconference in Toronto, named Deviant-U. It ran all day Saturday, with an optional brunch on Sunday and was open to anyone who was interested in BDSM in Toronto. Deviant-U, An Unconference? For those of you who aren’t familiar with the concept, the unconference model provides an open format learning experience, with participants… Continue reading "My Day at Deviant-U"