bdsm negotiation

Negotiation Checklist

We all hear about the importance of negotiation in BDSM play and relationships. This negotiation checklist is meant as a guideline to help you when planning play or dynamics with new people. The list is more oriented towards play, where people will likely have similar topics to discuss, whereas … Continue reading
Deviant-U BDSM Unconference

My Day at Deviant-U

This weekend I attended my very first BDSM unconference in Toronto, named Deviant-U. It ran all day Saturday, with an optional brunch on Sunday and was open to anyone who was interested in BDSM in Toronto. Deviant-U, An Unconference? For those of you who aren’t familiar with the concept, the … Continue reading