I’ve spoken before about safe words being controversial and I wanted to continue my thoughts on safe words in general. Choosing Safe Words vs Plain Language You and your partner(s) will have to decide if you want to use safe words or plain language. It’s a choice that each person should make for themselves. I tend to defer to the bottom… Continue reading "More on Safe Words"
I can’t even right now but I had to get this out. Sometimes I am so disappointed in my own community. The arrogance. The hubris. The complete disregard for the well being of others when one’s ego gets involved. Strap in, this is going to be a long one. The Solar Branding Fiasco To understand this current situation, we need… Continue reading "The Respected BDSM Educator, the Body Modification Expert and the Solar Branding Fiasco"
We all hear about the importance of negotiation in BDSM play and relationships. This negotiation checklist is meant as a guideline to help you when planning play or dynamics with new people. The list is more oriented towards play, where people will likely have similar topics to discuss, whereas relationships are very individual. That said, feel free to use any… Continue reading "Negotiation Checklist"