I’ve spoken before about safe words being controversial and I wanted to continue my thoughts on safe words in general. Choosing Safe Words vs Plain Language You and your partner(s) will have to decide if you want to use safe words or plain language. It’s a choice that each person should make for themselves. I tend to defer to the bottom… Continue reading "More on Safe Words"
I have some issues with my sexuality and relationships. So far I’ve only had vanilla sex with people I’m dating and kinky sex solely with people I’m not dating. I’m in a kinky relationship with a man who is the same age as me. It’s mostly kitten play, BDSM, with some daddy kink involved. Most of our convos outside of… Continue reading "Ask – Seperate Kink and sexual relationships"
I’m new to BDSM and I just heard of the term ‘submissive frenzy’. What is it? Why does it happen? How can I avoid it? Is there anything else I need to know about it? Submissive Frenzy Submissive frenzy is a phrase used to describe the state of excitement that new submissives often feel when starting out in BDSM. It… Continue reading "Ask – Submissive Frenzy & Dominant Frenzy"