BDSM Relationships & Education
With Ms Morgan Thorne
I’m new to BDSM and I just heard of the term ‘submissive frenzy’. What is it? Why does it happen? How can I avoid it? Is there anything else I need to know about it? Submissive Frenzy Submissive frenzy is a phrase used to describe the state of excitement that new submissives often feel when starting out in BDSM. It… Continue reading "Ask – Submissive Frenzy & Dominant Frenzy"
Have Safewords Become Controversial? Safe words are a well-known aspect of BDSM. We are all aware of the pop culture references to them, the joke that they have become in vanilla society. There has been a backlash against safe words in recent years by parts of the kink community – a group who does not seem to understand what safe… Continue reading "Are Safewords Controversial?"
I am a submissive woman who seeks a Dominant man, so I posted a profile and an ad on a popular website. I received a message from a Dominant who sounds ideal for me. He told me upfront that he is married. That he and his wife have an agreement that as long as he doesn’t “bring it home,” she… Continue reading "Ask – Polyamory in BDSM Relationships: Verifying it’s Okay"
Kinky in a Vanilla Relationship? I’m having a hard time finding a kinky relationship, so I’m wondering if it’s possible for kinky people to be in vanilla relationships and have it work out long term? I’m starting to think that I will never find a girlfriend that is into BDSM and interested in having a long term relationship with me.… Continue reading "Ask – Kinky in a Vanilla Relationship"
Does penis size really matter? I read an article recently about a sex worker who wanted to bust some of the myths about penis size. She wanted to share her expertise as a woman who has seen a lot of penises, of varying sizes. I see these types of questions asked all the time on Fetlife. Men are seemingly obsessed… Continue reading "Ask – Does Penis Size Matter?"