Do you find that you get a lot of guys that say they are submissive and flip their role after? The submissive who isn’t submissive I have encountered this problem of people who call themselves submissive, but who seem to want to direct every little aspect of play or an encounter. I’ve found that this happens with people of all… Continue reading "Ask – Not Really Submissive?"
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What is the definition of an Alpha Sub? I’m new to BDM and believe it might apply to me. There are a few possible answers to this question about the definition of alpha sub, so let’s take a look at each of them! Alpha Sub in Leather Family/BDSM House An alpha sub appears most often in leather families or other… Continue reading "Ask! – What is an Alpha Sub?"
Dominant in real life and submissive in the bedroom is a pretty common trope, whether it’s directed at men (bad ass CEO visits Pro Domme) or women (Kick ass modern woman defies feminism to submit to a man). It’s also such frustrating bullshit, that I usually ignore it. Except for today, I’m not going to ignore it, I’m going to… Continue reading "Dominant in Real Life, Submissive in the Bedroom"