Do you find that you get a lot of guys that say they are submissive and flip their role after? The submissive who isn’t submissive I have encountered this problem of people who call themselves submissive, but who seem to want to direct every little aspect of play or an encounter. I’ve found that this happens with people of all… Continue reading "Ask – Not Really Submissive?"
What is the definition of an Alpha Sub? I’m new to BDM and believe it might apply to me. There are a few possible answers to this question about the definition of alpha sub, so let’s take a look at each of them! Alpha Sub in Leather Family/BDSM House An alpha sub appears most often in leather families or other… Continue reading "Ask! – What is an Alpha Sub?"
This weekend I attended my very first BDSM unconference in Toronto, named Deviant-U. It ran all day Saturday, with an optional brunch on Sunday and was open to anyone who was interested in BDSM in Toronto. Deviant-U, An Unconference? For those of you who aren’t familiar with the concept, the unconference model provides an open format learning experience, with participants… Continue reading "My Day at Deviant-U"