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More on Safe Words

I've spoken before about safe words being controversial and I wanted to continue my thoughts on safe words in general. Choosing Safe Words vs Plain Language You and your partner(s) will have to decide if you want to use safe words or plain language. It's a choice that each person should make for … Continue reading
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Are Safewords Controversial?

Have Safewords Become Controversial? Safe words are a well-known aspect of BDSM. We are all aware of the pop culture references to them, the joke that they have become in vanilla society. There has been a backlash against safe words in recent years by parts of the kink community - a group who does … Continue reading
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Kinky Dating Scams & Red Flags

In what will be the final Kinky Dating post for a while, we will discuss kinky dating scams and red flags. If you missed the other posts in the series, please check out Kinky Dating – Know Yourself, Creating a Kinky Profile, Creating a Kinky Personal Ad, Sending Kinky Messages, Kinky Dating … Continue reading