I’ve spoken before about safe words being controversial and I wanted to continue my thoughts on safe words in general. Choosing Safe Words vs Plain Language You and your partner(s) will have to decide if you want to use safe words or plain language. It’s a choice that each person should make for themselves. I tend to defer to the bottom… Continue reading "More on Safe Words"
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I am a submissive woman who seeks a Dominant man, so I posted a profile and an ad on a popular website. I received a message from a Dominant who sounds ideal for me. He told me upfront that he is married. That he and his wife have an agreement that as long as he doesn’t “bring it home,” she… Continue reading "Ask – Polyamory in BDSM Relationships: Verifying it’s Okay"
We all hear about the importance of negotiation in BDSM play and relationships. This negotiation checklist is meant as a guideline to help you when planning play or dynamics with new people. The list is more oriented towards play, where people will likely have similar topics to discuss, whereas relationships are very individual. That said, feel free to use any… Continue reading "Negotiation Checklist"