I’ve spoken before about safe words being controversial and I wanted to continue my thoughts on safe words in general. Choosing Safe Words vs Plain Language You and your partner(s) will have to decide if you want to use safe words or plain language. It’s a choice that each person should make for themselves. I tend to defer to the bottom… Continue reading "More on Safe Words"
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BDSM has its own language, so let’s start with the variety of BDSM roles. It’s a language that you should learn if you want to meet others and get out into the community. The trick is that the words really only have a general definition, but the specifics can change from person to person. Learning the Language – Glossary of… Continue reading "Glossary – BDSM Roles"
This is the final day of Asexual Awareness Week 2017. In what seems to be my tradition this year, I’m getting in just under the wire! It’s been an unpleasant year so far, so please forgive me for always being late with this stuff. Without further ado, let’s take a look at 10 stereotypes about asexual people and get to… Continue reading "10 Stereotypes About Asexual People Debunked"
We all hear about the importance of negotiation in BDSM play and relationships. This negotiation checklist is meant as a guideline to help you when planning play or dynamics with new people. The list is more oriented towards play, where people will likely have similar topics to discuss, whereas relationships are very individual. That said, feel free to use any… Continue reading "Negotiation Checklist"