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More on Safe Words

I've spoken before about safe words being controversial and I wanted to continue my thoughts on safe words in general. Choosing Safe Words vs Plain Language You and your partner(s) will have to decide if you want to use safe words or plain language. It's a choice that each person should make for … Continue reading
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Glossary – BDSM Roles

BDSM has its own language, so let's start with the variety of BDSM roles. It's a language that you should learn if you want to meet others and get out into the community. The trick is that the words really only have a general definition, but the specifics can change from person to person. Learning … Continue reading
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Negotiation Checklist

We all hear about the importance of negotiation in BDSM play and relationships. This negotiation checklist is meant as a guideline to help you when planning play or dynamics with new people. The list is more oriented towards play, where people will likely have similar topics to discuss, whereas … Continue reading

Munch Etiquette For First Timers

Munch Etiquette When people ask how to become involved in kink or how to learn, the first thing they are told is “go to a munch!” Munches are a great first step, but like all first steps, they can be intimidating if you don’t know what to expect or how to behave. What is a munch? A munch … Continue reading